Signed up for the site www.seekacougar.com after seeing a positive review on a different site. Gentlemen this site work like this, only men are paying members, women get to sign up for free, and oddly enough just like all other site non payment or not, they are being bombarded with horny guys messaging them.
Every time you send a new message to a new user, or decided to read an incoming message for a new user, it will charge you 1 credits, now this isn't to say that an on going dialog is going to cost you a bunch, it shouldn't just the initial 1 credits. However you will get a lot of fake messages coming in the form of free flirts, or actual messages that cost you money to read. Good rule of thumb is like most sites, women don't send messages, they usually only respond with the slight exception which usually means the girl is ugly. If your getting a message from someone that is too good to be true (you are able to view there profile before you decide to open it) then it probably is. Another dead give away is that you able to see which women have viewed your profile, so if someone has sent you a message, and they never bothered to open and look at your profile, well guess what I guarantee its fake, as it is impossible to send a message without being on the persons profile first.
Now for the better part. I've actually was able to meet up with 3 women and have numbers for two others that I am still trying to set up a time to meet with, but not using the site to talk anymore. The first person I meet, which was literally within a day or two of signing up was amazing, and I have since meet up with here 3 more times, and plan to meet up again soon. Had it not been for her I probably would have become frustrated because the next person I meet did not come till much later, and by far was not of the same quality. Now not to sound like a dick, I am good looking, have my own private place to host, and do not have much trouble finding women, that being said, this site is not going to make you more attractive, so don't blame it if you don't get a response, or can't meet people. There are definitely real women on here, just don't be fulled by the 24 year olds trying to say they are cougars.